Caring for Our Birth Mothers

No, adoption is at no cost to the birth mom. It is possible to receive financial assistance during pregnancy depending on what the state you live in allows for necessary living expenses such as: clothing, food, housing, phone service, pregnancy related transportation and utilities once you are matched with a family of your choice.

Yes, you will have the opportunity to select the adoptive family for your child by viewing profiles. If you are not comfortable selecting an adoptive family, we can help you choose a family.

Selfless Love Adoption only works with Adoptive Families that have been home study approved by a licensed social worker to ensure that you have the best families to choose from. Every adoptive family has an adoption profile for you to review once you are ready for that next step. Once you choose a family we will do a conference call and you can speak with the family of your choice to see if they possess the qualities you desire in your ideal adoptive family.

Yes, you can receive pictures and letters regarding your child following placement if you desire for up to 18 years.  If you are seeking a closed adoption or a different level of openness, please discuss this with your Adoption Coordinator.

Selfless Love Adoption can work with you, regardless of the relationship you have with your baby’s father. We encourage expectant fathers to take part in the adoption process. If the father does not wish to be involved, there are steps that can be taken depending on the state you live in to ensure a legal adoption.

Once you sign the affidavit of relinquishment, your decision is final. Our goal is to help you reach a decision that you are comfortable with before you take that step.